About Med Gold
Welcome. If you’re new here — I primarily write about relationships, culture, and politics. I try to be as realistic, practical, and helpful as possible. I’ve been writing on Substack for over 4 years and published over 120 essays.
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Love, Sex & Relationships
★ Lessons in Bad Texting - What not to do.
★ The Sanctity of Purity - Quibbling about sexual history reflects man’s desire to take the virginity of every girl he’s ever been attracted to.
★ The Myth of Enthusiastic Sex - On the gap between performative and genuine sexual energy.
The Biggest Mistakes Made on Dating Apps - Principles for men & women using male-brained technology.
Americans Are Weird About Sex - The lingering spirit of Puritanism induces sexual guilt in Americans.
Love & Sex Have Nothing To Do With Each Other - To truly love someone requires a level of selflessness few have the courage to bear.
Your Oneitis Is Stinking Up The Room - Men who can’t get over “the one who got away” repel women and sabotage future relationships.
Duty-Free Sex - Couples who don’t fall off after they get married will forever want to fuck each other.
Listening Is The Most Potent Aphrodisiac - Being judgmental will kill your sexual and romantic life.
Desire vs. Simping - Few can express genuine sexual and emotional desire without losing their dignity.
Sex Math and the Death of Taking Risk - Allowing strangers on the internet to dictate your attraction reflects a profound fear of vulnerability.
The Dark Path to Increasing The Birth Rate - Women have bottomless sexual desires and want to burn down the Earth when most men are unfuckable.
Do You Want Total Fuck - Most sex is mediocre because men have been conditioned to suppress their most animalistic passion and primal lust.
The Myth of a Hypersexualized Culture - Displays of degeneracy are often lightyears away from resembling anything sexual.
Jealousy vs. Possession - The differences in male and female self-destruction.
On Vulnerability Management - Spilling your guts too soon will rarely lead to anything good.
How I Fumbled The Bag - Part I: Anastasia - I also have many embarrassing stories. This is the first post of a series where I will post my L’s.
Differences in Sexual Morality Between Gen Z and Boomers - The Nick Fuentes vs. Pierce Morgan debate revealed a stark generational divide.
Why People Settle For Shitty Relationships - “Why are they still together?”, said everyone.
‘The Reason Gen Z Isn’t Dating’ - What The NYT Missed - Response to a New York Times piece on Gen Z dating trends.
A Review of ‘What Do Men Want?: Masculinity and Its Discontents’ by Nina Power - Review of Nina Power’s book on masculinity and male desire.
On Love - Part II: Beyond Cringe Gender Wars - Nature gives its greatest rewards to those bold enough to step into the unknown.
No, Fighting Isn’t Normal. - Essay on why constant conflict is a sign of a bad match, not a normal relationship.
Lessons in Bad Texting II - What not to do.
Why It’s Good No-Fault Divorce Killed The Institution of Marriage - Too many people settle for 6/10 relationships, which produces 6/10 people.
On Mia Wallace & Vincent Vega - The dance scene in Pulp Fiction reveals core sexual dynamics between men and women.
Female Nature
★ Advice for Women - Men don’t leave women with sexual spontaneity
★ Women Don’t Know What They Look Like - A respectable man’s evaluation of a girl’s appearance defines her understanding of her own beauty.
★ Selecting for Female Intelligence - On intellectual compatibility.
I Love Women - A curated archive of heterosexual takes.
How To Deal With Liberal Women - You can learn everything you need to know about a woman by how she responds to being told ‘No.’
On Women and Dogs - Are you raising your girlfriend properly?
The Sexual Appeal of Sydney Sweeney - The girl next door who understands the male gaze.
Advice for Women Part 2 - A Manual for Femcels.
The Decline of Girlbosses, Birth Control, and Dunking on Women In Their 30’s - Gen Z girls are learning from the mistakes of their Millennial sisters.
On The Woman Question - A compilation of harsh truths about women that most men haven’t been taught or don’t want to hear.
Racially Profiling Women - Part 1 - Are certain girls more likely to kill you in your sleep?
On Lana del Rey - The living whitepill for girls paranoid about their age and men paranoid about gold-diggers.
The High T Woman - Women with the highest sex drives often have the highest standards for manliness.
Women Are Permanently ‘Going Through It’ - Women need to feel safe as badly as they need oxygen.
‘Criminal’ by Fiona Apple and The Feminine Dilemma - Women are eternally battling two forces between the raging slut and the pleasant housewife.
What Is a Good Woman? - Indicators of a good wife and a good mother.
Feminists Don't Understand Female Sexual Attraction - The myth of “Happy Wife, Happy Life”
The Eye of the Beholder - Nature has blessed very few men with The Eye for Beauty and they dictate the way women want to be perceived.
Male Psychology
★ How to Not Be Gay - 70% of men are gay.
★ Stop Looksmaxxing. - Men care about how they look just as much, if not more, than women do now. They should care more about being funny.
★ Why Most Men Are Boring - How gaming, sports, porn, and gambling are making men homogeneous.
Porn Addiction is an Addiction to Depression - Men who watch other men fuck girls they want to fuck creates a cycle of cucking themselves.
How to be Funny (or at least, Not Boring) - A follow up to Stop Looksmaxxing.
On Men Who Hate Women - Hating women as such reveals a hatred of natural selection and one’s place in the sexual hierarchy.
The Rise of Alpha Male Feminists (The “Redpill” Community) - Scratch a disgruntled redpiller and you’ll find a committed radical feminist.
The Case for Male Skincare - A guide for men who don’t want to develop chudlines, jowls, or pussyneck.
On Clavicular and The Rise of Looksmaxxing - The case for why Gen Z is obsessed with the science of attractiveness.
Fuck The Longhouse - Men aren’t men until they’ve come to terms with their own death.
On Porn - Men shouldn’t watch porn — but if they do, they can learn a thing or two about sexual prowess.
Stop Worrying About Getting Old - Stop Being a Faggot.
Inflate The Currency, Deflate Man’s Vitality - Being unable to afford a home and expensive dates can make men feel incompetent with women.
The Male Depression Industry - Women-hating content is in high demand and pathetic vultures are here to supply it.
On Male Masochism and Emotional Neediness - Diagnosing the Mommy Girlfriend fetish.
Get Over Your Fear of Rejection by Getting Rejected - Men aren’t free until they stop caring.
On Blackpilled Men - Essay on men in the blackpill community and online defeatism.
Stop Babying Zoomers - The bar has never been lower to get laid or have a girlfriend.
On AI Women & Sexbots - AI will understand men’s most core sexual and emotional needs on an individual level and only the strongest will reject it.
Culture, Media & Society
★ The Death of Twitter - A post-mortem of Twitter’s demise from a power user.
★ On Faith in Jesus’ Resurrection - My thoughts on faith and religion on Easter Sunday.
★ How to Stop Social Media & AI from Ruining Your Life - Lessons in remaining human.
The Principles of Cooking Well - How to suck less at food, an introduction to Marco Pierre White.
True Detective S1: The Spectrum of Man - Rust Cohle is the Übermensch and reflects the weaknesses in his very human partner Marty Hart.
Shedding Dead Skin - The epistemology of transformation.
Weak Prayer Yields Weak Results - On Kierkegaard & Nietzsche’s views on Prayer and mistaking God for Santa Claus.
How Kanye West Killed Rap and Rock Music - Kanye destructive influence on rap and rock music.
Why Is Everyone Talking About Sabrina Carpenter? - On the rejection of filler face.
Is Anyone Cool Anymore? - Why there’s fewer cool public figures than we once knew.
A Letter to Jordan Peterson - From a Psychopathic Anonymous Parasite™ and former fan.
American Samsāra - Humans are only fully alive while immersing themselves into that which puts them in a trance.
Boring Internet Theory - Everyone wants to become their favorite meme now. The internet isn’t dead — it’s just boring.
On The Indian Question - Americans hiring Indians is, and will always be, a terrible culture fit.
Internet Psychopaths - Part 1: The Obsessive - Those without a strong social anchor IRL are the most likely to become obsessed with online personalities.
American Airports Are Hell on Earth - Flying should be a luxurious experience, but it isn’t.
The Sopranos Series — Part I: Tony Soprano - Inside the subconscious of the greatest male character of all-time.
The Sanctity of Anonymity - Posting anonymously is sacred and the only path to clear and authentic truth exploration.
Generational Collapse and The Destruction of Life Stages - There’s no longer a relationship between age and behavior.
The Metaphysics of Slop - How Elon Musk saved freedom of speech then made it cringe.
The Mystique of Jeffrey Epstein, King of the Nerds - Why Epstein had such an allure to extremely successful dorks.
On John Mayer - Why I admire and relate to John Mayer.
How To Become a Better Poster - The greatest posters have their own voice.
“May I Meet You?” - Essay on Bill Ackman’s dating advice and modern courtship.
An Open Letter to The Nostalgic - Nostalgia is a symptom of depression
Internet Psychopaths - Part 2: Leftists - The rise of depraved opinions shouldn’t shock you.
On the Johnny Depp vs. Amber Heard Series - The Overdiagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder
How to Protect Your Identity from AI, Doxxers, and Scammers - Updated practical guide to personal operational security online.
Distraction - a poem about pile-ons.
Politics
★ On Tuning Out American Politics - As politics continues to replace culture, becoming a normie is the path to retaining your sanity.
★ The Basics of Money - The basics of how to think about saving, investing, debt, and wealth.
★ Liberals Aren’t Going to Protect Indians From Racism - On rising anti-Indian sentiment
Is Donald Trump Retarded? - Fractures on the right and Trump’s second term.
The Male Democrat - The left built a coalition of cuckolds to white knight policies that destroy civilization.
The Politics of Sexual Frustration - Underfucked liberal white women are the most destructive force in America.
The Forgetting of Death - The collective push for eternal life on Earth is driving everyone insane.
The Basics of Money - Pt. II: Understanding Bitcoin - It’s never too late to buy the most innovative asset ever created.
Are You ‘Racist’ or Do You Just Not Want To Get Murdered? - On the most meaningless word in America and the White Liberal Problem.
One Month of Political Sobriety - Tuning out of American politics has brought many unexpected benefits.
Why Aren’t There More Daniel Pennys? - The left has made male bravery illegal because it conflicts with their religion of worshipping black sin.
The Memes Administration - The second Trump administration is more concerned with getting likes than delivering results.
What Does It Mean To Be Right Wing? - Conservative politics from first principles, regardless of who is in power.
What Happened to Tucker Carlson? - Essay on Tucker Carlson’s shift from mainstream commentator to conspiratorial media.
COVID Broke People, Now They Believe in Demons - Belief in the supernatural is making people look very stupid.
Boomer Derangement Syndrome is Misdirected Rage - Essay arguing blame for America’s problems is too often pinned on Boomers.
The Millennial Curse: Caring Too Much About Politics - Everything’s fine. It’s okay to stop and smell the roses.
Trump’s (Second) First 100 Days - An update on the Vibe Shift and what Trump needs to improve on.
Ask Me Anything
Session 1 - The foot fetish, ghosting, addiction to toxic sex
Session 2 - Flirting, virgins, girls who sleep with black guys
Session 3 - Husband not lasting long, signs you’ve found “the one”, red lipstick
Session 4 - Men who want career woman, eye contact at bars, late bloomers
Session 5 - How to stop arguing with women, women with porn habits, managing female neurosis
Session 6 - Developing taste, unlearning manosphere content, quitting weed
Session 7 - Quirk Chungus couples, high-quality bedding, not blackpilling on marriage
Session 8 - Bush or no bush, how to attract a Slavic girl, waiting until marriage
Personal Stories
★ The Making of Med: Fernanda - Origin story about an early relationship that shaped the author.
★ Valentina: A Crazy Sicilian - Personal story about a volatile romance in Palermo.
★ A (Temporary) Goodbye - How I lost my virginity
Julia: A French Connection - Personal story about a lasting connection with a woman in Paris.
How I Escaped Generations of Family Chaos - Twisted family dynamics can poison you and your most cherished relationships.
Weed Turned My Best Friend Into a Gay Suicidal Homeless Drug Addict - A story of when marijuana met undiagnosed bipolar disorder.
The Twitter Vault
★ Deleted Tweets - Part I - Archive of deleted tweets using a specific slur.
★ Deleted Tweets - Part II - Archive of tweets that triggered violations or suspensions.
★ Deleted Tweets - Part III - Archive of deleted ratio posts and miscellaneous takes.
Deleted Tweets - Part IV - Archive of deleted tweets about race.
Race - Curated archive of 100 tweets about race.
My 100 Biggest Posts - My top 100 tweets ranked by likes.
Top Shitposts - Curated archive of my top shitposts.
Political Takes - Curated archive of my top political posts.
I will keep this page updated as I continue to write.
Enjoy 🤍
