On Men Who Hate Women

The online right is giving the left exactly what they want.

I am the most hated account on “right wing” Twitter because I’m shameless about my attraction to beautiful women. I find women fascinating, frustrating, complicated, fun creatures. Women are malleable. They’re seducible, highly susceptible to charm, humor and flattery. Women aren’t in a fixed state. I also, of course, love having sex, and am fully comfortable with my sex drive. This upsets a lot of men.

I like talking to women. Conversations with women are often more free-flowing than those with men. In male-to-male dialogue, layers of ego often prevent them from voicing how they truly feel about things, due to a deep-rooted need to signal they’re solid and reliable, dependable during war. Typically this continues until there’s enough trust between them where they can open up more. This is a good thing, but it’s not always the case. Modern men are often more feminine than women now. Modern men play status games and become uncomfortable if you don’t hold the correct opinions, pre-approved either by the state or their favorite right wing figures. These are all low T qualities — I find these games boring. Women are raw in their honesty, if not in words then their eyes and body language. And flirting is fun. Sometimes I’d just rather talk to women. 

I grew up during a time men were supposed to be attracted to hot women, and unashamed of it. If you weren’t attracted to women, other men assumed you were gay, and would let you know. On top of that, attracting women was a signal of competence, because women are attracted to men who other men respect. This is not a recent nor a strictly human phenomena, this is found across every living organism, deeply rooted in the absolute basics of biology.

However, much of the online right gives the left exactly what they want by acting out the leftist “incel” fantasy, a term we’ve all heard before. Let’s check out a definition by the most normie of news sources, CNN:

It wouldn’t take very long to find men on the online right who live by CNN’s exact description. They’re fully aware of how the left defines the term, and given they choose to uphold the left’s portrayal, I assume that’s what they want, so I’m referring  to them as incels throughout the rest of this post. 

Hearing Out The Incels

I’m not going to pretend there aren’t reasons for men to be angry with their place in the world in 2023, particularly white men. Here’s a few reasons why I am not entirely unsympathetic:

Economic Conditions

One of the harsher realities about women is that they want men to provide for them. I think of the world not as it is now, but how it has been for hundreds of thousands of years from an evolutionary perspective, so I think their expectations make sense. It wasn’t particularly long ago when men had to be able to hunt animals, bring back those dead animals for her and her children, and protect them from enemy tribes. Women may not need men to hunt for them anymore, but they do need men to protect them from other tribes. Particularly if they live in a city with a lot of black people. These biological preferences are not entirely “up to date”, but genetic mutations take tens of thousands of years to adapt to new environments. Regardless of the 19th amendment and that it’s normal for a woman to work now, they still find men who can provide more attractive than men who cannot. Men who earn a lot of money are typically very competent, at least at what they do. That’s just the way it is.

The average net worth of a man under 35 in America in 2023 is not looking good, $76K is going to run out quickly. And this is of course relative to location. If you live in a major city and only have $76K to your name, you’re essentially poor.

Even if you’re in the top 1% for your age, less than $1M to your name is still not much, considering housing prices and rising inflation. It’s not going to last very long, you’re still stuck in the 4HL. 

Less than 100 years ago, it was possible for a man to work a full-time job and buy a house with his income alone. Oftentimes a man could afford a house in his early 20’s. In that scenario, he’s setting up the infrastructure to support a wife and children. That is no longer the case. If a man doesn’t have much money to his name, it’s difficult to take a woman on dates, go on vacations together, buy a home, put children into a good school, and raise a family long-term. This is understandably blackpilling, I’ve written about what this does to men.

Women Have Changed

Women in America tend to have a chip on their shoulder for a variety of reasons. Many of them were indoctrinated since they were very young that they don’t need men, and that men, particularly white men, are the cause of the world’s problems. Conversing with a woman who brings her negative demeanor towards men is not particularly pleasant, it’s understandable men don’t want that kind of unnecessary hostility.

Women also are not as conservative sexually as they used to be. I’ve gone quite into detail on this and I don’t like to repeat myself, so you can read my thoughts on the topic of bodycount here.

Dating Apps Are Superficial

I guess. I don’t really understand that point. I see dating apps as the world’s biggest bar where you get to kick out the people you’re unattracted to with a swipe. But if you’re a mega romantic and prefer to only talk to women in person, then sure, I extend my heart out to that. 

There is, however, a skill to dating apps. Men need to have text game. You don’t just swipe right and teleport to a bar where you’re sitting next to the hot girl you swept right on and she’s asking you to fuck her in the bathroom. Hundreds of men are messaging her, you need to stand out. You need attractive pictures in your profile, you need a funny, alluring bio. You need to know how to start a conversation without coming off cringe or creepy, you need to know how to pull the trigger and ask them out on a date, keep them interested until the date actually happens. Women get bored easily. Being successful on dating apps isn’t easy. It requires practice, and like anything that requires practice, it means you fail, a lot. That isn’t exactly an attractive offer. 

‘The Longhouse’

Zoomer men are right to look up to their elders and feel deeply blackpilled. I’ve written about this in detail, but men are pathetic now. Many Millenial & Gen X men find themselves in relationships or marriages where they aren’t happy, where women treat them like waste — they’re shells of the men they once were. Oftentimes these men get henpecked, sometimes in public. They aren’t the patriarch of their home, they rarely see their friends. They have no power. They have to “ask the Mrs.” to get a few drinks with their buddies. Zoomer men are right to be blackpilled by this, those men are shameful.

Divorce law is also notoriously harsh towards men. Women often take men for everything they have post-divorce. Tremendous lawyers fees, excruciating amounts of time dedicated to the details of his marriage and oftentimes sexual life, sometimes even being required to financially support the new guy she’s fucking. Signing up for a modern marriage, from the perspective of an unexperienced Zoomer, is indeed, not particularly appealing.

However, given how online the Zoomer is, they get blackpilled easily. Oftentimes their opinions are rooted in memes rather than life experience. In this post I’m going to discuss why Zoomers should be less blackpilled about women.