How to Not Be Gay

The state of a feminized society where 70% of men are gay.

During COVID, women’s natural sense of compassion was weaponized against them. The nation was locked down in the name of safety while cities burnt in the name of George Floyd. America became Carl Jung’s devouring mother on steroids. As a result, men became more feminized than they already were.

Gen Z is the most liberal and gayest generation. 43% of Zoomers are liberal, compared to only 24% of the Silent Generation.¹ Zoomers are also significantly more likely to identify as LGBTQ than older generations, with only 72% identifying as straight compared to 97% of the Silent Generation.²

However, when I use the word ‘gay’ in this post — I’m not referring to sexuality. You can be a gay heterosexual. You can also be a homosexual who isn’t gay.

Allow me to explain.

I grew up in a world where men hurled the word ‘gay’ or ‘faggot’ against each other as a way to maintain quality control. If a man acted weak, feminine, or weird — someone would call him a faggot or tell him he’s being gay. It was a very effective insult. He would adjust his behavior because it was considered good for men to be tough as nails.

The world was better when men called each other faggots when they were acting like faggots.

Below are my qualifications for being gay:

-Liberal
-Gossips
-Listens to Lana Del Rey
-Uses an umbrella
-Attracted to muscular women
-Notices what women are wearing
-Splits the bill on dates
-Gets offended
-Drinks oat milk"
-Has Gayface (very real)
-Scared of bugs
-Scolds men with high sex drives
-Lets his girlfriend drive
-Argues with women
-Defeatist/Depressing
-Asks for consent
-Listens to musicals
-“Waiting for marriage”
-Picky eater
-Shows weakness
-Vegan
-Overly religious
-Doesn’t drink
-Against gun ownership
-Doesn’t own tools
-Doesn’t know how to fight
-Doesn’t know how to swim
-Politically correct
-Cares about age gaps
-Drives the speed limit

By this criteria, at least 70% of men are gay.

Being homosexual is likely genetic. Being gay is a choice. You can simply choose to not be a faggot.

The Feminism to Weak Men Destroying Society Pipeline

How did we get to this point? Why do we live in a world where men can say “Do you have any oatmilk?” and not be publicly flogged? Why are we in a world where men aren’t publicly shamed for asking for consent before touching a tit? It isn’t hard to figure out where it came from.

Feminism significantly overplayed its hand and started to groom boys into weak men. This is antithetical to women’s biological desire to be surrounded by masculine men who can provide for them and protect them from being raped by enemy tribes.

Is this what women actually want? No. Do women ever know what they want? Rarely. Ask a girl what she wants for lunch and get back to me. Women are fed up with the outcome of unchecked feminism.

Are women going to realize that the feminine impulse to stop bullying in schools led to men becoming weak? Probably not, and it isn’t men’s job to convince them of that. Arguing with women is extremely gay. It is men’s job, however, to own their own lives and not submit to cultural mandates to live like a faggot.

Nature always wins. Women are biologically designed to be sexually attracted to competent, respectable, masculine men who don’t put up with bullshit. I promise you that if a girl respects you and is attracted to you enough, she will vote for whoever you’re voting for. Women want to be swept off their feet by men who aren’t gay. The most hostile and unpleasant of girlbosses are dying for her chaos to be tamed by a man who has things under control. Women don’t like working in offices, regardless of what girlbosses may claim. Zoomer girls for example are learning from the mistakes of girlboss Millennials and embracing daintiness and femininity, as I went into detail about in The Decline of Girlbosses. Unchecked feminism is on its way out.

How to Not Be Gay

As a devout misogyinst, I don’t expect women to “hold themselves accountable” for anything because I believe what women think, say, and do is in response to what men think, say, and do. It is, and will forever be, a man’s world.

I also believe women are extremely dissatisfied with living in the lowest testosterone environment in recorded history. I keep repeating that ‘we live in a pandemic of underfucked women’ because women (quite literally) go insane without being sexually satisfied by a man on a regular basis. I also believe women would genocide all weak men if they had the option to. This is why women are trying to not only feminize society, but also actively trying to destroy it. “A world of weak men is not a world worth living in” is the subconscious thought driving women to support policies that lead to western civilization collapsing. It’s a subconscious disgust response to weak men, and things will not change until men start being less gay.

I know what you’re thinking. “Med, what am I supposed to do, knock on my CEO’s door and tell him to fire the HR department?” No. I’m not suggesting that one singular man become the world’s hero. I am saying that on an individual level, men can start with themselves. One of them is to simply refuse to change with the times. I’ll give you an example.

In the Emo era, men started to wear “skinny jeans” (a more marketable way of saying ‘girl’s jeans’). They even wore eyeliner, painted their nails, and styled their hair to look like the sad faggots who were singing the songs they blasted in their first car (admittedly, some of the music was good). Some of my close friends started to do this as well. It was “cool” to wear makeup and skinny jeans. But I refused. I told them all they looked gay and they got annoyed at me for it. There were even times where I’d go to parties and girls would think I was the weird one for not dressing like this. I didn’t care. I rode it out. And now I get to send my friends pictures of them looking like faggots and they beg me to delete them (I will not). Did it feel uncomfortable to push back at the time? Yes. Did I sleep better at night knowing I wasn’t sacrificing my dignity in exchange for social points? Absolutely.

It’s important for men to develop a cultural gaydar by first accepting that the regime wants nothing more than for men to be feminine, and therefore, gay, so they can use women to achieve their political ends and turn men into castrated slaves who never say no and go along with whatever their plans are. If you can sense something is gay, or makes you look weak, then simply don’t do it. Trust your gut. Pretend it doesn’t exist and live by your own rules. Nothing scares them more than the idea of 500 loyal and strong men who can organize and effectively topple their reign.

In 2020-2021, I made a promise to myself that I will never recite woke propaganda if I’m told to, and that I would be willing to get fired, go to jail, or even be killed before I read a script to apologize for my race or “post the black Instagram square.” This is called having principles, and very few men have them. Most men are willing to do hand their balls over in exchange for a temporary status bump. It’s crucial to know what you aren’t willing to do. Yes, that means willing to be fired, quit, end a relationship, or move your location to avoid losing your dignity and handing over your manhood.

Living in a feminized society also requires the social finesse to not be outcasted and a willingness to keep your mouth shut at times when you don’t want to. It’s objectively stupid to be confrontational with every person you disagree with or tell people to fuck off too quickly. Having the social IQ to know when it is and isn’t the time to speak up, and knowing when to pick your battles, will serve you greatly long-term. Part of being an adult means doing things you don’t want to do.

Is your company going to fire all of the women and tell you it’s now okay to call each other faggots? Probably not. Is your company going to hire only hot girls and allow you do lines of coke and fuck in the bathroom? Probably not. We can dream. Until then, you’re going to have to make some sacrifices and accept that things are not going to be 100% the way you want them to be in the foreseeable future. That being said, it doesn’t mean you need to be complacent. Being complacent also means being defeatist.

The amount of men who have thrown their hands in the air and accepted that “it’s over” just aren’t going to make it. The men who cannot stop blaming women for the way the world is are part of the problem. The most you can do, as cliché as it is, is live by example. Act the way you wish all men would act. If all men would accept this challenge, I guarantee you feminine chaos will begin to tame.

1. Public Religion Research Institute. (2023). Political ideology, by generation [Figure 4]. In Gen Z survey. https://www.prri.org/research/generation-z/

2. Public Religion Research Institute. (2023). LGBTQ identity [Figure]. In Gen Z survey. https://www.prri.org/research/generation-z/