Sex Math and the Death of Taking Risk
Millennials are making Gen Z as miserable as they are.
If you’re on Twitter for more than 2 seconds, you’ll see many theories about what is and isn’t “appropriate” in relationships and how each sex is supposed to behave when it comes to dating. The majority of what you’ll see comes from women who are (I don’t like this next word, but it fits perfectly) coping with their less-than-ideal romantic and sexual situations, and men who are naive or cowardly enough to go along with it.
Being able to spot the difference between an objective point of view and a temper-tantrum isn’t easy. Much of ‘gender discourse’ is an online phenomenon, but the spirit underneath it also takes shape in the real world.
There’s a long list of societal events that brought us to where we are now. I’ll give a few examples in chronological order:
Bill Clinton: In 1998, President Bill Clinton got caught cheating on his wife by getting a blowjob from his secretary. This opened up the yapping about ‘power dynamics.’
‘I Don’t Need No Man’ Feminism: American culture in the late 90s and early 2000s was packed with sassy women who portrayed themselves as strong, independent and ‘don’t need no man.’ No Scrubs by TLC, Independent Women by Destiny’s Child, Legally Blonde and Sex and the City, just to name a few examples. All of this served to ‘take men down a peg’ without acknowledging the psychological torture of not being fucked regularly or opening a pickle jar.
The Fat Positivity Movement - In the mid 2000s Dove released their “Real Beauty” campaign (Google it if interested, I don’t like to force smut onto people). In the late 2010’s we saw the rise of “plus-sized” models in advertisements. Now we’re still dealing with Lizzo and her consequences. This corrupted everyone’s understanding of objective beauty standards and left men with less attractive options to choose from.
#MeToo - From the Weinstein scandal in 2017 through COVID, it was open season on any man who ever fucked a girl who could ever accuse him of “abusing his power”, regardless of if he actually did. This put many men on edge and gave rise to the self-owning idea of “toxic masculinity” which led to the subtle castration of many young men.
Trans Goblins - In 2013, the DSM-5 changed the term “Gender Identity Disorder” to “Gender Dysphoria.” In 2015, Bruce Jenner came out as trans and demanded he be called Caitlyn. In 2016, Obama directed public schools to let trans people use whichever bathroom they wanted. Since then, we’ve seen the Biden administration lift Trump’s ban on trans people in the military, Drag Queen Story Hours in libraries across America, and mentally ill public school teachers reading books to children about how to masturbate and give blowjobs. Children are now required to learn complete lies about how many genders there are. It’s gone completely off the rails.
American culture, which dictates the culture of the western world, has been chipping away at everyone’s understanding of the nature of the opposite sex. Factor in the rise of the overprescribed psychiatric medications, a recession, a pandemic, an inflated currency, and terminal internet addiction, and you have the world we see now — relationships that don’t last or never start.
Men and women are petrified that the other is going to take advantage of them and attack them, so they set up rules for everyone else before ever taking the first step themselves.
When I say people set up “rules”, I’m talking about the arbitrary rules you according to Sex Math.
“Is the age of this girl I’m attracted to appropriate? Would women online call me a pedophile? They might, so I’m not going to talk to her.”
“I just turned 27. Men online say that means I’m no longer attractive. I’m not going to go out tonight, men won’t talk to me anyway.”
“I really want to fuck him. But that would increase my bodycount number by 1. Men online would say that’s bad, so I’m not going to fuck him.”
RULES. RULES. RULES.
Can you believe these fucking people? It’s like they’re yearning to be back in kindergarten again so they could be given a coloring book because it’s comforting to color inside of the lines.
Who wins and who loses in these situations? No one. You obeyed some retard online who doesn’t even know you and now you’re more alone. Each neurotic thought ends with not interacting with the opposite sex because they’re afraid they might break the rules. They stay trapped in their heads, clammed up, worried about whether the next thing they do will be considered “okay” by complete strangers. This entire process only adds to the dead, boring, and sterile society we live in today where everyone is on edge and no one has any sense of fun or adventure.
