Women Don't Know What They Look Like
If a girl wears a sexy dress but a man didn’t see her, did she even wear it?
Women don't know what they look like. And I mean that literally. Especially hot girls. If she’s always been hot, meaning, she’s been hot since puberty — then she’s been struggling with her hotness since she was a teenager. Men stare at her everywhere she goes, oftentimes uncomfortably so. Other girls are jealous of her. If she has sisters then they undoubtedly have shown resentment towards her. Even worse, oftentimes her mother is jealous of her youth and beauty and has made multiple unwanted comments. Ideally that doesn't happen, because a mother's words stay with girls forever.
There isn’t a single girl on the planet who wouldn’t change something about her physical appearance. Not one. This is just part of the female condition. She thinks she needs to change things about herself while simultaneously knowing that men find her stunning, while also managing the shade she gets from other girls. She looks in the mirror and she may see a monster or she may see an undiscovered supermodel. It all depends on the day. But in her mind? Most of the time, her face comes up blank.
The Kardashianization of many modern girls is a valid complaint. Who's to blame? Well, mostly gay men, irresponsible estheticians, and her friends who get unnecessary work done. Who's responsible to fix it? Men. As is the case with everything, by necessity. You are a misogynist, right anon? But to be more specific, the responsibility falls on straight men blessed with The Eye for Beauty.
Girls are constantly optimizing to be swept off their feet by men they admire with the aim to eventually be protected, provided for and impregnated by one. That is the basis of their entire endocrine system. Their biology is constantly driving towards this goal and therefore their psychology is as well. Without the input from men they respect, whose taste they respect, meaning, not a man who just cums out of his eyeballs every time he sees a pair of tits, or men who lower themselves to having sex with any girl who will let them —then they’re not being given proper direction. They want to know what admirable men find attractive, and they will follow his guidance.
Not only are there less and less men with the eye for beauty, but more importantly, less men are willing to tell girls “no” when they want to make changes to themselves that they shouldn’t (let alone tell them “no," ever). Without a 'North Star' to aim towards, they will follow the instructions given to them from “society."
But on a more practical level, girls really care about what their friends think, and many of them will take the advice from gay men seriously. Men who are sexually repulsed by women. It’s a mess.
Given there’s a low likelihood a girl has a man in her life who can be objective in his judgement, my advice to girls is to at least identify men in their lives whose opinions they respect and who have good taste in girls. That doesn’t necessarily mean you need to date him, but at least have a good rapport with him so you can ask him what he thinks. When it comes to getting work done, I strongly advise against it in most cases. Chances are there's other things you can do to accentuate yourself. I’m sure you can take a guess what’s at the top of the list for me: don't be fat. Strive for thin arms. Yes you guessed correctly. Because it makes you hotter, immediately. After that, I would rank the way you hold yourself as next most important. A pleasant demeanor, charming, feminine. These are the things that men worth their salt are attracted to. And lastly, I would say to be very picky with the men you date.
By the way, I’m not against botox merely as a means for wrinkle prevention. But fillers, nosejobs, boob jobs and other things that change the shape of your face and body really aren’t necessary in the majority of cases.
To the men reading: this is a tremendous whitepill. Men who feel powerless over girls should understand that they really value men’s opinion of them. I need to stress, they value the opinion of men they respect. Not just any man. But this fact alone indicates that on a biological level, meaning, regardless of existing political and cultural circumstances, this is and will always be a man’s world.
All my girlfriends in the past would tell me they wanted some kind of work done—boob job, lip fillers, etc. Always told them no and that it’s not allowed, and did so from my teens. They’d pout, but you could always tell they actually appreciated it deep down. Had several girlfriends thank me later in life for standing firm on that no. Sure enough, I’m having to do the same with my current girlfriend. Like you always say, it’s not that all girls are the same, but as you get older, you almost laugh at how many times you’ve seen the exact same scenario play out with the women in your life. It’s genuinely endearing. God I love women.
My daughter has the build of a willowy ballerina and the face of Audrey Hepburn. I’ve fed her primal her entire life and make sure she is very active to not let any of it spoil under negative epigenetics. She’s still a child but she will be a complete bombshell one day, and I make sure she knows it. Mothers that are jealous of their daughters have no ability to bond to their children, so they see everything as zero sum.
She’s six and already gets shade from her not as willowy best friend lol. She also bosses around boys and they bring her things at the park 😂