This week there was another debate on the timeline about Rural AmericaâŠseems to happen every few months. But this wasnât your typical Urban life vs. Rural life debate. It was about whether or not you can find a beautiful wife at a truck stop in the midwest! Simply riveting.
The debate turned into a bigger discussion about why âyoung menâ should drop everything, hit the open road and go on an adventure. Mike Cernovich and Matt Walsh, two early gen Xâers/late millennials, have been the most vocal about this. Millennials love to find themselves. As I called out, thereâs something crucial missing from this debate: money.
Let me be clear â this post is not about whether you should go on adventures. My subscribers know I strongly advocate for taking risks and getting accustomed to the unknown. But I donât advocate for being stupid either.
Someone asked me recently what my other interests are besides what I post about. I said Iâm also interested in watches, astrophysics, Renaissance art, cooking and macroeconomics. I think about the American economy and the dollar quite a lot.
Most Americans donât know how to think about money anymore. And I mean that literally. How much should a decent car cost? What about a house? Whatâs the new âcomfortable salaryâ everyone should be aiming for? Itâs certainly not $100K like it was 10 years ago. Itâs not even $250K. Recent data shows over 25% of people making over $250K are living paycheck-to-paycheck.
Americans, overall, arenât doing well financially. Over 50% of Zoomers still live with their parents.
Almost 1/3 of Americanâs donât have any money saved up in case of an emergency. Theyâre living on the cusp of sanity and homelessness.
Everyoneâs financial situation is different. Some people have parents who support them. Some people are doing just fine. They have a full-time job, savings, maybe some investments and some PTO to be used. But most Americans are pretty broke.
What does it mean to be broke? Most people think being broke means âhaving no moneyâ, but thatâs a very low bar. To be broke means youâre at very high risk of possibly running out of money. If youâre living paycheck-to-paycheck, youâre broke. If you donât have an emergency fund, youâre broke. If youâre swimming under mountains of debt and can barely keep your head above water, youâre broke.
Iâm not going to tell anyone what to do. If youâre broke and you want to travel spontaneously and âlook for a wifeâ, by all means. But thinking things through never hurt anyone. How long is that trip going to last? Gas is ~$4/gallon now. Food that doesnât poison you isnât cheap. Hotels are expensive. And hey, if you want to sleep in your car â by all means. But what if things go well with your newfound smokeshow you met at the gas station? Having sex in your car is funâŠif youâre still in high school. Wouldnât you rather fuck her in a hotel room like an adult?
Regardless of government data, America is in a recession. Everyone can feel it. Everything is becoming more expensive and more people are relying on debt to make ends meet. People allow the little money they have get eroded by inflation, which is only going to get worse. Thereâs never been a better time to be realistic about money and to think about it in a way that benefits you 10 years from now. Thereâs way too much magical thinking going on.
Iâm shifting gears here. I know this isnât what I normally write about. But I think the way I think about money both practically and philosophically could help some people who may be struggling with it right now whether it comes to making more of it, being more financially disciplined, or getting yourself out of debt. This is not a âHow Toâ anything, but a breakdown of the basics from someone who knows what life is like with and without money.
âThis is not financial advice.â
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