AMA - Session 2

Dating multiple women at once, flirting better, and AI's impact on culture

Paid subscribers can access all questions and ask me anything by joining my chat or DMing me directly.

In Session 2 we discuss:

Flirting Better
Ending Things With a Girl In Your Social Circle
Dating in Germany
Getting a Vasectomy
AI’s Impact on Culture, Dating, and Socializing
Social Media Detoxes & Why Boredom is Good
Dating Multiple Women at Once
Recharging Your Social Battery as an Introvert
Book Recommendations
Girls Who Sleep With Black Guys
Male Instinct & Wanting To Only Date Virgins

Enjoy 🤍

Flirting Better

Subscriber: Hey Med, hope you’re good I’ve been getting better at funnymaxxing, which has helped a ton with breaking the ice and adopting a more unapologetic demeanor. Listening deeply without judgment and being attentive to others has also been a major boost for my relationships. That said, beyond those set of skills, I struggle with flirting. I’m still too much in my head and don’t know how to develop a flirtatious attitude. Overall, I feel too rigid when I try to be seductive. I can make girls laugh and listen well, but escalating the situation and seducing is something I haven’t honed yet. Thanks, Med! TL;DR: How do I flirt?

Med Gold: Flirting is an act of playfulness. Being lighthearted, and not taking life too seriously is required in order to flirt properly. Being able to make fun of yourself allows you to lightly make fun of other people. But I must stress the word lightly. Poking fun at someone without making them feel bad or pointing out something they might be actually insecure about. Flirting can also take place through direct compliments about a girl’s appearance or saying something you like about her personality. But if you’re trying to shake the part of you that comes across too rigid then I would focus on being playful. This comes down to loosening up and not caring too much about the outcome.