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Francisco d’Anconia's avatar

I really appreciate how positive you are about what’s possible if you believe in yourself enough to let yourself fail and learn. More men need to read this. As you’ve stated the advice being given to men is fucking terrible and is making things far worse for them. The world is here for the taking, there is no scarcity whatsoever for the man who believes in himself.

CertifiedArab's avatar

what if the setting is not a date? if it is someone in your class for example. How is desire best expressed you think?

Med Gold's avatar

There needs to be a foundation first or at least some context. Need to at least get her number, take her on a date first etc.

Expressing this too early or if the vibes aren’t right yet can scare them off

SMA 🏴‍☠️'s avatar

Yeah. Well said, and wise.