good thing i like to fuck my bf all the time. our big initial issue i would boil down to the "e boy vs cam whore" dichotomy - jealousy on both sides about interactions with these types of people online. i'm equally if not more online, so i totally understand needing to be alone to laugh at racist memes. the point of contention comes with the camwhores. as a woman i can't help but be insecure that my man is looking at lots of pretty women online. you are absolutely right that men are just programmed like this. i've tried to evolve for years on this issue and there is some kind of block for me.
anyway, my bf countered that he gets this same feeling of insecurity when i talk to e-boys, except for him, it seems more of a slight and more personal, since i'm actually really engaging with these guys, and he's merely watching sluts / doesn't care to converse with them.
i posit that these are simply issues of our time, the "internet age" and that the key to a good relationship is MOSTLY open communication about the inevitably wandering eye on both sides of a relationship. you can stay silent and let resentment build, or you can try to understand each other as a team, while still getting to enjoy interacting with e-boys and camsluts.
with that said, i am still going to work on my blowjob skills.
I feel! I'd still give him shit for the cam girls though lol. It's good to accept men's nature but you can still hold them to some standard of self-discipline/respect
LMFAO. Ok the first part of this is hilarious, and true. But towards the end you really drift off into some beliefs about women that aren’t really true, assuming these are gendered experiences rather than pretty much universal. There are just some people that like to be left alone to do other shit. Anyone who wants you to pay attention to them every second you’re together… is someone who is going to create an extremely draining dynamic that’s not sustainable, and everyone who doesn’t have a stick up their ass loves memes and shitposting on Twitter. Surely you have to know that. Apologies for being crass.
Frankly reading some of your articles has made me realize you’re way more naive than I had expected. It’s kind of adorable. I’d bet money that you’re a complete sweetheart under this digital persona you’ve created.
Reading this piece of work is like having a little Grand Marnier on ice with a splash of soda and a squueze of lemon. Sweet, sour, fresh, bubbly, full of light. I can now be mildly intoxicated, for 7 bucks a month. A bargain! Thanks for that.
It's my impression that women spend so much time nest-optimizing in order to deal with their innately higher levels of trait neuroticism that they end up neutering their relationships. A man may love his wife/gf dearly, but being subjected to an endless tide of spiritual coupon-cutting does not a hard dick make.
This is the kind of honesty I wish more humans engaged in with their writing. Hours and hours of podcast episodes are not as useful as a 5-minute essay with this level of direct, practical honesty.
women being a pain in the ass is punishment for men wanting to fuck other women. nature is fair that way
1) Most men are gay now.
amen.
good thing i like to fuck my bf all the time. our big initial issue i would boil down to the "e boy vs cam whore" dichotomy - jealousy on both sides about interactions with these types of people online. i'm equally if not more online, so i totally understand needing to be alone to laugh at racist memes. the point of contention comes with the camwhores. as a woman i can't help but be insecure that my man is looking at lots of pretty women online. you are absolutely right that men are just programmed like this. i've tried to evolve for years on this issue and there is some kind of block for me.
anyway, my bf countered that he gets this same feeling of insecurity when i talk to e-boys, except for him, it seems more of a slight and more personal, since i'm actually really engaging with these guys, and he's merely watching sluts / doesn't care to converse with them.
i posit that these are simply issues of our time, the "internet age" and that the key to a good relationship is MOSTLY open communication about the inevitably wandering eye on both sides of a relationship. you can stay silent and let resentment build, or you can try to understand each other as a team, while still getting to enjoy interacting with e-boys and camsluts.
with that said, i am still going to work on my blowjob skills.
thanks for a thoughtful piece.
What the heck is a e-boy? Do you pay for that? Is it conversation?
I have never heard of that.
I feel! I'd still give him shit for the cam girls though lol. It's good to accept men's nature but you can still hold them to some standard of self-discipline/respect
LMFAO. Ok the first part of this is hilarious, and true. But towards the end you really drift off into some beliefs about women that aren’t really true, assuming these are gendered experiences rather than pretty much universal. There are just some people that like to be left alone to do other shit. Anyone who wants you to pay attention to them every second you’re together… is someone who is going to create an extremely draining dynamic that’s not sustainable, and everyone who doesn’t have a stick up their ass loves memes and shitposting on Twitter. Surely you have to know that. Apologies for being crass.
Frankly reading some of your articles has made me realize you’re way more naive than I had expected. It’s kind of adorable. I’d bet money that you’re a complete sweetheart under this digital persona you’ve created.
Reading this piece of work is like having a little Grand Marnier on ice with a splash of soda and a squueze of lemon. Sweet, sour, fresh, bubbly, full of light. I can now be mildly intoxicated, for 7 bucks a month. A bargain! Thanks for that.
It's my impression that women spend so much time nest-optimizing in order to deal with their innately higher levels of trait neuroticism that they end up neutering their relationships. A man may love his wife/gf dearly, but being subjected to an endless tide of spiritual coupon-cutting does not a hard dick make.
This is the kind of honesty I wish more humans engaged in with their writing. Hours and hours of podcast episodes are not as useful as a 5-minute essay with this level of direct, practical honesty.
Thank you for dropping wisdom for naive women like me. It will 100% save me from future divorce.