Advice for Women Part 2

A Manual for Femcels

I wrote Advice for Women 3 years ago and it’s one of my top 10 most read posts to this day. Several women told me it saved their marriages. However, it was focused on a core sexual component of relationships and was written primarily for women who already found someone.

This post is written for women who have a hard time attracting men, finding a relationship, sustaining one, are tired of being ghosted, or have given up. Some may call these women femcels.

The reasons why a woman might be having a hard time finding someone to settle down with are vast. It’s often due to the world we live in. Most men are gay now, I suspect around 70% of them. Most men (and frankly, most people) are very boring. Women aren’t eager to settle down with boring gay men.

But some women have self-sabotaging modes of being that they aren’t aware of. This can range from having unrealistic expectations, to hating men as such, being jaded, acting like men, being allergic to compliments, settling for losers, acting on pressure to get married early, to balancing being sexual and reserved — just to name a few. This results in giving off “not girlfriend material” vibes. While this is completely unintentional, it’s often the reason why they remain single.

Long-time subscribers know my advice tends to be direct and brutal, but realistic and practical. I’m not a fan of the tradwife meme. I’m not naive about women’s sexual needs. I don’t think women are washed up in their 30’s. Most advice given to women online is ideological, political, biased, or completely retarded. Not everything written here will apply to all woman reading it. This is a general guide and a list of common mistakes I see.