The Decline of Girlbosses, Birth Control, and Dunking on Women In Their 30's

Reality is unraveling feminist propaganda on a predictable timeline.

The thing of the week came from a video of Charlie Kirk saying that women in their 30’s are no longer in their prime, within the context of discussing birth control. Ashley St. Clair stated that birth control shouldn’t be politicized while also saying the left is smart akshually and that she can’t wait for Republicans to lose, all on the same day. “Sovereign Brah” called birth control evil, a predictable take from a religious YouTube conservative who gives OnlyFans girls a platform to embarrass themselves and gain subscribers.

These issues have been relatively settled among anons on the right for years. Given that facelords are typically 2-3 years late to dissident topics, this discourse is right on schedule. Regardless, it’s a good thing that the dangers of hormonal birth control are entering the minds of their many follow who don’t follow the anon right, as it’s very important.

But the timeline has mostly been about the attractiveness of women in their 30’s. A video of a woman unleashing her jealousy of girly girls in their 20’s for getting lots of attention from men got 7M views this week. There’s plenty of examples of women in their 30’s pushing back on Charlie Kirk’s take as well as pushback to how anons responded to it. The pushback isn’t hard to find.

We are indeed witnessing the unraveling of the girlboss. Many girls who grew up watching ‘Sex and the City’ fulfilled their dreams of moving to NYC to have lots of sex and get treated to dinners & drinks while focusing on their careers, and many of them are noticing their chances of finding a husband are not as high as they once were and are becoming more cognizant of the female biological clock. The propaganda-to-reality timeline tracks.

Lots of men are pretty happy about this. Their reactions can be summarized as “Good! Serves you right! Idiot! Now go cry in the corner while no one wants to impregnate you. Dumb whore!”

This is a very complicated issue. Men, particularly on the right, have been frustrated with how difficult it can be to find a woman without a checkered sexual history and are generally put off by the consequences of female liberation. Women, both left and right, have become frustrated with how feminine men can be and are generally turned off by the consequences of plummeting testosterone levels. There are a lot of variables at play, but I’m going to try my best to sort out this extremely thorny issue as the culture is updating its software in real time.

Passport Bros

Men have caught a lot of heat for becoming or fantasizing about being “Passport Bros”, a term flung at men by American women. A Passport Bro flies to Latin America or East Asia hoping to find a girlfriend who may have more traditional values, a cleaner sexual past and wasn’t raised to hate straight white men or be put off by “toxic masculinity”, which now just means having a normal male libido.

Many men in America have noticed that American women, particularly millennial women, can often be quite unpleasant. Not all, but many of them, have lost their sense of vulnerable femininity, silliness, daintiness and let’s face it — sense of beauty. American women have gotten fatter. They tend to have a chip on their shoulder and there can be an unnecessary hostility to them. There’s an aversion to being flattered. Men generally find this off-putting, masculine and unattractive. Personally, I take it as a challenge, because those women are more sexually hungry for aggressive sex and being dominated than they’d ever be willing to admit because they’re tired of acting like men. But not everyone wants to play that game, rightfully so.

Also, the sexual marketplace in America has become very competitive. It’s true that the majority of attractive women are having sex with the minority of men who haven’t let themselves be indoctrinated by leftist propaganda and still act like men. If you’re starting from 0, you may feel like you’re competing with Gigachad in comparison. And not everyone wants to play that game, but it’s important for men to ask themselves if that’s the reason why they romanticize about foreign women they haven’t met.

Overall, I’m neutral on this issue. It’s not an entirely unreasonable pursuit but it’s a gamble. You may find that trad girl in Colombia or Thailand, you may not. You may spend a bunch of money on flights and hotels and just end up fucking prostitutes. Then you’re back to where you started. Not a very triumphant story. Romanticizing ideas is naive and many underestimate the impact that language barriers and cultural differences may have on a long-term relationship. But if it works out for you, cheers. If not, you’re back in America with American women.

Women in Their 30’s: Attractiveness

The idea that women in their 30’s are so unattractive they’re beyond the idea of pursuing simply isn’t true. It’s a meme. As I’ve said before, despite women getting fatter, they’re simultaneously getting hotter. Yes. You read that correctly. The Pareto distribution is widening. The unattractive women are becoming extremely unattractive and the hot women are becoming significantly hotter. Women in their 30’s tend to be very focused on their health and their bodies. Just go to a high-end gym in any major city. Girls in their 30’s spend hours essentially sculpting themselves. They’re very focused on staying hot, likely because they want to increase their chances of finding a husband and starting a family. Ana de Armas is 35. Aubrey Plaza is 39.

Women’s sex drives also start to peak in their 30’s. They become insatiable fuck machines. This is not a bad thing.

I think you get my point. And I would never speak blasphemy against Father Time. And I’m not trying to claim that women become more attractive as they get older, but the meme against women in their 30’s is highly exaggerated.

Women in their 30’s: Why Are They Single?

Assuming all women in their 30’s are single because they were fucking tons of men on dating apps is also a meme. The harsh reality is that most women are single because most men are faggots now. If the way that men respond to me on X is any indication of what the dating world is like for women, honestly, I don’t blame them.

It’s important to keep in mind that this discourse is happening while testosterone is at the lowest levels in recorded history. Much of that is due to female liberation, but let’s not go too far off topic.

There are less and less reasons for women to want to settle down in a world where the men to choose from are not particularly masculine and they’re able to provide for themselves financially. If a woman has a career, the consequences for a divorce, or not getting married at all, are less drastic for them than they once were. Having an income means they won’t be completely screwed. Despite the impact having a career has on their personalities, this is the harsh reality of it.

Another reason why the Fuck Rate (the marriage rate, the birth rate) is declining is because of our currency. After taking the dollar off of the gold reserve, it’s been printed and therefore inflated so massively that it’s become much more difficult for men to fully provide for a wife and children. Under more stable conditions, men want to own a home to raise a family in. Combine this with huge inflows of cheap labor and you now have dual incomes being a necessity for most couples. As I’ve written about before, this economic reality is emasculating and makes men less attractive to women on the whole.

So marriage is happening less often. Which means weddings are happening less often. When women see their friends getting married, they want to get married. They see their friends with a big rock on their finger while being treated like a queen for a day and want that same experience. It isn’t a good reason for a woman to want to get married, but it is one. As I said, there’s a lot of reasons why women in their 30’s are single.

To be fair — there are absolutely plenty of women in their 30’s who are single now because they spent their 20’s being hyper focused on their career, repelled every decent guy that came their way by being unnecessarily unpleasant and just wanted to get fucked and feel like they were slaying. I’m not discounting that. But to look at the situation without taking plummeting testosterone levels into account isn’t being objective.

Women in their 30’s: “Accountability”

“Med, where’s your sense of accountability? Are you going to just stand up for women all the time? Can women ever do anything wrong?” My friend, your male feminism is showing. I don’t expect women to make good choices unless they have a strong masculine figure in their life to guide them in the right direction. This is a fundamental of being a misogynist. Expecting women to solve societal problems means you really believe women can do anything men can. This is Right Wing Male Feminism.

Did single women in their 30’s learn about their biological clock? Of course they did. Were girls also being told in school, movies, and TV that girlbosses were the ideal woman? Of course they were. To blame women for acting on leftist propaganda lies in a misunderstanding of female nature. As I’ve stated in On The Woman Question, women are not political animals. They will believe what they’re told to believe by the media relative to the strength of the men in their lives. You want to blame someone? Blame her father.

Women's supposed ‘beliefs’ will change based on who the Father in their life is. The Father in their life is their alpha, which could be their literal father, their man, or the culture they live in. If a woman's father is weak, she will default to her culture’s beliefs. If her man is weak, she will default to the culture’s beliefs. If her father or man asserts himself as the Living Constitution in her life then she will follow his beliefs. Women biologically benefit by choosing strong men who are resourceful and high status, who will give them children and protect them from other men raping them, killing them or kidnapping them. If a woman has ‘beliefs’ about political matters that do not concern children, they were instilled in her by her father, her ex, or her culture. If she has ‘beliefs’ you are not a fan of, don’t take them very seriously.

Expecting women to be “based” means you’re expecting women to think like men and you haven’t yet recited the words of Sam Hyde regarding who you’ll end up with if you filter for women based on their political beliefs. Respectable, masculine men have way more of an influence over a woman’s view of the world than most realize.

Birth Control

Hormonal birth control is a fucking disaster. And I won’t cite research on the topic or make this about biology. I’m going to talk about the impact it has on women’s personalities from my own experience. Women who are on hormonal birth control are usually a mess. Their hormones are all over the place. They’re hornier than a 14 year old boy one day and completely disassociated from their sex drive the next. They become more unpleasant, dramatic and irritable. Stopping a woman’s menstrual cycle is the most unnatural thing in the world. Having children is what women are biologically designed to do, regardless of if they should or want to have children. Stopping the natural order of their own bodies inevitably is going to take a massive psychosexual toll on them.

In addition, many doctors will suggest that women go on birth control to treat issues unrelated to preventing pregnancy, like anxiety or to improve their skin. The modern doctor, in my opinion, is not to be inherently trusted. If a doctor isn’t first asking you how much sleep you get, what your diet is like, how often you get sunlight, how much stress is in your life and how much good sex you have (not whether or not you are “sexually active”), then they don’t take their patient’s health seriously and aren’t worth their salt. But not everyone holds this kind of skepticism towards the medical community, so when a doctor suggests something to their patient, the patient usually trusts them and takes what they’re prescribed. Women especially. Women tend to really trust their OBGYN.

Regardless, my view on hormonal birth control is rooted in what it does to women’s personalities and sex drives and not because of a particular religious or moral principle. I don’t care if women don’t want to get pregnant during certain times of their lives. I don’t think it’s good to romanticize having babies for the sake of it. In the world we live in now, most young couples have no idea what they’re doing in life, don’t understand the opposite sex and can barely provide for themselves. If a woman doesn’t want to have children but is forced to, she will not be a good mother. If two people who aren’t right for each other have a child, that child will be raised in chaos and will probably grow up to become a pain in the ass for everyone else. Waiting to have children until you feel you’re ready to raise another human being with a person who is right for you, and can afford to, is the right way to go.

When people talk about women using birth control to prevent pregnancy from “casual sex” — should we also say that men shouldn’t pull out if they don’t want to impregnate a woman? The same logic applies here. The issue isn’t about birth control in itself, it’s about the method. Hormonal birth control is a disaster. The copper IUD is a far superior method. I know the copper IUD isn’t perfect — but you both get the full and real sensation of sex and there isn’t an unwanted pregnancy.

Regardless, nothing tops the pullout method. But men who don’t have much sexual experience yet shouldn’t rely on pulling out. This takes lots of practice and knowing your own sexual sensations. Knowing the difference between, and knowing when to stop yourself between “I might cum in the next 2 minutes” and “I’m going to cum in 1 second and the Lord himself could get in my way and it wouldn’t stop me from nutting” is crucial. The difference between those two states is tremendous. Practicing edging will help with this. Also, cumming inside of a woman is the most pleasurable feeling there is for a man. You either need to really not want to have children or have a pretty iron will to stop yourself.

I’m ranting here, but the dangers of birth control becoming a more mainstream topic is good and ideally more women will get off of it. Chances are hormonal birth control will take the same path as seed oils — it was a fringe topic at first, then it becomes mainstream, then it becomes cringe, and eventually more people adjust their choices then the situation improves, even if slightly.

Women in their 30’s: Crisis Management

There’s a lot going on here. And each person’s life and history is their own and not everyone falls into a particular meme. Regardless, I think dunking on all women in their 30’s because some women had this realization “too late” is an easy layup and doesn’t do anything productive. It’s like making fun of an old person for getting cancer from smoking before they knew that smoking causes cancer. They can’t go back in time. It just feels cruel.

If a woman in her 30’s realized she made bad choices and wants to turn her life around, isn’t that a good thing? This isn’t gender-specific. As a human, recognizing you were making bad choices and want to make better ones is good and should be supported. Would you dunk on a heroin addict for trying to get clean? I don’t get it. It feels like it comes from a deep resentment of women as such, which is a projection of mommy issues.

This cultural isn’t going to be resolved after this current round of discourse on the timeline. As I posted this week, many zoomer girls have learned from the state of millennial women and decided to take on a more feminine demeanor, which is more alluring to men. But not all of them, and not all women in their 20’s are ready for a long-term relationship. Again, it’s a case-by-case basis. I really cannot stress how important it is to not learn about people through memes.

The reality is we live in a democracy where women can vote, and politicians are highly incentivized to pander to them. You can fantasize about repealing the 19th Amendment as much as you want, but the chances of that of happening are as high as revoking the Civil Rights Act. Fun to think about, probably isn’t going to happen in our lifetimes.

For any movement, whether it’s cultural or political, it’s better to have hot women on your side than not. Hot women attract more men and hot women attract more hot women. If a girl in her mid 20’s is smart enough to question our backwards culture, finds her way to right wing X and sees all of the men telling women they should die alone because they’re inherently stupid, do you think she’s going to stick around there? Probably not and understandably so. She may even support your enemy out of resentment.

From what I’ve seen, women are attracted to this part of X when they see that men are funny, strive for excellence and are at least attracted to women. If they see that the men behave like they’re asexual, remind them of who they were when they were teenagers on their period and despise all women to their core, they have little reason to listen to whatever else it is they have to say. And if men want women to be influenced by their politics, they’ll do that once they respect you. Women like it when you can make them laugh, be sweet to them and treat them like they’re not supposed to be responsible for anything other than raising children. It doesn’t mean they’re not capable of being competent, but it does mean you understand that the world’s problems are to be fixed by men, not women.

There isn’t a solution that can be applied to millions of people at once, but what I would tell millennial women is to either get off of or stay off birth control, keep focusing on staying hot and don’t let angry young men on X make you think you’re completely worthless. And I would tell men to stop associating women in their 30’s with being broken ex-whores who aren’t beyond consideration, and as I have been, to find out for yourself about how you feel about women, woman-by-woman, and stop being memed into a life of inaction. It isn’t nearly as bad as people think it is out there and most people in real life are more normal than the insanity on the timeline would leave you to believe. Take some time off from this shit.