In Episode 12 of Medcast I answer the below questions from my paid subscribers. You can ask me anything by joining my chat on Substack. This episode is also available on Spotify.
-Thoughts on dealing with or simply having (unfounded) subtle feelings of envy in a relationship?
-What is the most important thing for women to understand/accept about the male psyche?
-I had a guy friend tell me I shouldn’t date any men who are under 25 (I’m 19 for ref) because he said they’re immature and careless and don’t know what they want from life or women until that age. I think it’s a pretty extreme generalization but is it accurate/is there any truth to it?
-What are your views regarding religious girls who choose to wait a while or until marriage to have sex? Do you think these kinds of practices hold relevance or importance in today’s society? There are many different opinions on sex and how it relates to religion on the TL, curious about your thoughts
-What is your opinion on “The Pussy” by Delicious Tacos
-What are your thoughts on hooking up with an ex? The sex is insane every time it happens but just leads to confusion on both sides afterwards. Somewhat recent breakup.
-Med, I've never been so confused but I'm in a relationship for almost 2 years now, I realised months ago I can do much better and I don't want to spend rest of my life with her but don't want to break her heart either. I am slowly pushing her away, this has worked for me before but I'm stuck. How do proceed leaving her without breaking her heart and do it all fast?
-Any fun stories of you working at a bar/ restaurant? One of the best things I have ever done is I recently started working part time at a popular bar in my city. It’s a lot of work, but the things I’ve learned about women and myself have been invaluable. It’s been a ton of fun, and I highly recommend any young man to do something like this. It’s worth the late nights.
-From what I’ve seen you have good taste. Can you recommend underrated paintings, sculptures, movies, books, albums, recipes? Thank you
-Across most cultures, especially in the past, couples discussed their dreams and their interpretations upon waking. I tell my wife (24) to share her dream with me each morning and use an app to create a voice to text recording for our dream journal. I give her my interpretation of her dream. She tells me that its extremely emotionally intimate and misses it on mornings where I leave for work early. Why do so many men not humor their partner with astrology, dreams, and other passions? To me they’re leaving a lot of easy charisma and emotional connection on the table for zero down side.
-Women want their man to be so passionate that they dictate their dreams and their meanings, but many turn away. Why are they so gae?
-Re the speed dating question last episode - apparently it is still a thing, a bar near me does a speed dating event. Any tips/advice when I go?
-How do you address pressure from family, friends etc about an engagement in a longer term relationship?
-What do you think about Law of attraction/manifestation? Do you believe in it? What are your thoughts?
-Why do you think oneitis as a phenomenon exists in men? (i.e. the phenomenon of usually younger guys going crazy for a single girl & and over idolizing her). From an evolutionary perspective, wouldn't this be counter-productive from the whole 'desire to find a mate' instinct since it usually just ends up icking the girl out?
-Thoughts on perfume? Favorites? Core memories?
-Right-wing men such as yourself often speak of the necessity for women to maximize their beauty and sex appeal for their own good and the good of society. Fair enough, ideally. But in practice, doesn't this make for a woman who is neurotically vapid and shallow? In general, how do you feel about vanity in women, as a personality trait? Does it bother you?
-What important truth do very few people agree with you on?
-How do you go about dealing with a woman's beta male orbiter "friends"? In the last episode you spoke about setting boundaries and just saying things once, should I just tell her "hey I don't feel comfortable with you hanging around these other guys" or should I just go confront these guys myself and tell them to fuck off? Too many dork ass male feminist "I'm a good safe man you can trust me 🤓" types around.
-When it comes to women who never had a father in their lives, why do you think they tend to have bad attention seeking behavior and no awareness of it even when it's pointed out to them
-Would you talk a little more about what you said in the last episode about porn addiction being an addiction to depression?
-If Med Gold were to start a private dinner club, what would his criteria be for the men and women in it?
-Do you journal?
-Got any tips for calming down any moments you feel needy for attention/validation?
-What to do when you just feel frustrated with girls? I can't lie, after reading the replies to your metoo tweet, I couldn't help but feel a little blackpilled seeing the just total lack of reading comprehension in the THOUSANDS of people in the comments. I always knew that girls were "silly" and "crazy" but this made me lose a drop of faith in humanity that I didn't know I even had. I know this is more of a vent than a question but I felt the urge to communicate it.
-Is hysteria real? Are women pre-disposed to develop anxious/depressive physical and mental symptoms in correlation to the lack of good-dicking in their life? My own non-clinical observational research in the couples around me as well in my own experimental study within my own marriage has been promising. Further research and peer-review is required into the white-pill of hysteria. “Can We Solve the National Mental Health Crisis through Getting Fit and Having Great Sex?”
-Obviously I don’t know you IRL, but I can tell that you are a more laid back person who does not get easily inflamed by small things. I believe that I am generally of a similar disposition and I think that I am this way as a reaction to spending a lot of time around high stress/anxiety people. Can you relate and do you agree?
-I’m an early 20s guy and I just got out of a long term relationship and moved across the country to be closer to my home town. The other day I reconnected with some college friends over a few beers and he brought a girl along that he thought I’d get along with. It went great, the entire group had fun and I think the girl and I hit it off pretty well. Next weekend we’ll be at the same get together at the beach and I’m looking to make a further connection and impression on the girl. Do you have any tips for taking that next step with a girl you barely know but think you kind of have it in the bag with?
-Married 5 years. Have two small kids. Wife and I do not like each other 50% of the time. Half the time things are ok. But I wake every day asking myself if I should divorce her yet am too scared to do so. The biggest fear comes from how will it affect the children. Can you help me clarify the decision making process on what is the right move? I am looking for clarity and guidance on how to determine if it's better to leave her or stay together for the kids.
-What, if anything, can you tell about a man from his taste in women?
-Do you believe trad women on X who claim to want a virgin husband
-With the Olympics going how would you rank the hotness of female athletes participating, both by the sport they’re playing and the country they’re representing. I think the track ladies from Nordic countries are probably the best at this
-Should you invite a girl back to your place for sex after a first date? If she declines, is she not horny enough for you or just doesn't want you to think she's a slut? Is it worth pursuing a girl after her turning you down like that?
-Based on your pureblood vs. mixed blood tweet it seems you believe that marrying within race/culture is important. Aside from the obvious reasons to marry within culture (language, values, maybe religion, etc.) what are the other things that are important or could give the couple a better chance of success?
-Do you think glasses on guys are unattractive? Would you say it hurts or helps or has no effect. I kind of have to wear them so nothing I can do about it. I sometimes worry if it's an unconscious thing that women and people in general don't like.
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